last weekend in south bend

My mom and dad came to South Bend to help me move (thank you!!!!!). We had a fun dinner at Macri's deli with Beth, Alli, Jackie, Beth and Brett, and then they were on their way while I stayed behind one more night to attend Kaitlyn and Tommy Curtin's wedding.


The wedding was absolutely beautiful and so much fun!! Anytime you have the chance to dance with any of the 3 Slonkosky brothers (let alone all three), you know it's going to be a great time. I was so, so, so happy to get to spend time with Keri, who is a true sister to me and one of my biggest heroes and inspirations in life. Thank you Keri for everything! I love you!
It was such a gift to see so many wonderful friends at the wedding, and to have the chance to say hello and goodbye before I left. It was especially fun to see Maria Spears, who I haven't seen for years!
It was also great to see Claire who had come all the way from the Honduras to be there for the wedding. You are beautiful Claire!

the blogiversary

For those of you who are new to the blog, it all began last year (mostly as a joke) after a trip to the St. Joe 4H county fair. So we decided to celebrate the 1st blogiversary by going back to the place where the fun all began! Enjoy the photos!!

the happy crew arrives...

and we all begin the search for our favorite fair foods. brett finds his favorite first. he calls 'em "pronto pups" but you probably know them as corn dogs!

beth, alli and beth enjoying their dinner!

this sign for fried vegetables seemed a little misleading...

this one, however, definitely wasn't trying to hide anything!
the "fatballs" seemed a little too much, but this sign convinced us to go for the elephant ears. (we put them in the category of "almost good for you")

this sign meant exactly what it said...
all you had to do was pick up any duck to win... so here we are with our matching prizes! (brett opted out of this one)

which way next??

to the animals!

i was a big fan of the "fuzzy lop."

last but not least, i can't forget to thank the mayor of south bend for coming to the blogiversary! mark your calendars for next year everyone!!!

back online!!

thanks to my wonderful mom and dad who drove in from ohio to be here so the internet people could work their magic installing routers and such while i was at school, i am so happy to say that i am back on the internet!! there is much to share, so i think i am going to just post a series of short blogs with photos from the past few weeks. i'll try to go in chronological order including the 'blogiversary' (attended by the mayor of south bend!), the last weekend in south bend before moving, and the move to pittsburgh... here we go!

checking in!

hi everyone!

just a quick note to say hi, and let you know that much more blogging is in store... i am in the process of moving into my new apartment in pittsburgh, and won't have internet for another week or so. in the meantime i'll try to find a place to get online so i can post the pictures and videos i'm so excited to share.

hope you all are having a WONDERFUL day today!!!

love,
nicole

ps. thanks so much to beth p. for telling me that if you follow this link, you can "subscribe" to the blog, and find out when there are new posts. i think that's how it works-- does that sound right beth??

lyrics for "abraham's offering"

I posted this song earlier, but was recently asked to post the lyrics too...



“Abraham,” You called to me
I am ready Lord, what do you want of me?
“Take your son, your only one, your joy above all things
You shall journey up the mountain
To the place of which I speak
You shall lay him on the altar
You shall give him back to me.”
And I did not sleep that night
And my agony gave birth to the morning light
For three timeless days my son walked by my side
And Isaac turned to me
As we approached the chosen height

“Father I carried the wood and you carried the flame
But where is the lamb for the sacrifice of praise?”
I said “God will provide what He asks for we must do”
Oh God, I trust in you

This was the child You gave to me
The fruit of all my prayers I offered fervently
My son, my only one, who bore the wood for me
I took it from his shoulders when our
Journey was complete
I began to build the altar then I bound his hands and feet.
Then I looked into his eyes
And saw the confusion and I heard his cries
“Father why are you doing this?
Please say something to me”
But silence was my sole reply
I could no longer speak

Then I laid him on the wood and shook like a flame
With trembling hands I took the knife and
Prayed for strength
Oh I do not understand but my love for You is true
Oh God I trust in you

“Abraham,” the Lord cried out to me
“Do not slay your son
Do not harm him in the least
Now I know that there is nothing you won’t do
Now I know your love for Me is true.
By your grace every nation shall find
Blessing in your name
You have trusted in my promise
So your kingdom shall be great
You’ll have descendants countless as the stars
Sands of the sea
All the world’s been blessed through your
Obedience to me.”

Jesus in His agony
“I am ready Lord, what do you want of me?”
My Son, my only one, my face revealed to see
You shall journey up the mountain
To the cross on Calvary
You shall lay down on the altar
You shall die to set them free

And You did not sleep that night
And Your agony gave birth to the morning light
For three timeless hours You made one last sacrifice
To save us by Your blood and offer us eternal life

Lamb of God upon the wood with the
Spirit’s burning flame
The Father gave his only Son as a
Lamb to be slain
To fulfill every hope that
Your promises are true

Oh God I trust in
Jesus I trust in
Jesus I trust in You

a beautiful message from danielle rose

I would just like to let this one speak for itself...
We love you so, so much Danielle!!



the song~

I will meet you at the table
I will meet you in His heart
In the company of angels
In the place where all things start
We receive each other's presence
We are all made one in Him
Though I cannot see your face
I will see you in the Eucharist

Come and meet me at the table
Come and meet me in His heart
We'll be singing with the angels
Each man playing his own part
In the symphony of praises
We will join our song with His
Though I cannot hear your voice
We'll be speaking in the Eucharist

Do not be afraid
Do not be afraid
Do not be afraid

When we gather at the table
We are closer than our breath
Even nearer than the angels
When we touch His very flesh
Dwelling in each other's presence
I will hold you close inside
Every soul in heaven and earth
Now is present in the Body of Christ

Do not be afraid
Do not be afraid
Do not be afraid

We are pilgrims on a journey
We are headed for the throne
Carried on the wings of angels
Oh we do not walk alone
All our prayers we lay before Him
And His grace will pave the way
To lead us to our one true home
Where we'll see each other face to face

And do not be afraid
Do not be afraid
Do not be afraid

I will meet you
I will hear you
I will hold you
I will receive you
I will see you in the Eucharist...

'the anointing at bethany'

"Remember the scene in the house of Lazarus: Martha was serving while Mary had no thought of food but only of how she could please her Beloved. And 'she broke her alabaster box, and poured out upon her Savior's head the precious spikenard, and the house was filled with the odour of ointment.'

The apostles murmured against Magdalen. This still happens, for so do men murmur against us. Even some fervent Catholics who think our ways are exaggerated, and that - with Martha- we ought to wait upon Jesus, instead of pouring out on Him the odorous ointment of our lives. Yet what does it matter if these ointment jars - our lives- be broken, since Our Lord is consoled; and the world in spite of itself is forced to inhale the perfumes they give forth? It has much need of these perfumes to purify the unwholesome air it breathes."

- A letter written by Saint Therese of Lisiuex to her sister Celine in 1894

I fell in love with Danielle's new song "The Anointing at Bethany" the first time I heard her play it in Nashville. It's about the moment in the Gospel when Mary, the sister of Lazarus, anoints Jesus' feet with oil that some criticized her for wasting. How surprised I was last night to find that Saint Therese had written a letter to her sister about the very same passage... not a coincidence!

God bless you Danielle as you prepare to enter the Disciples of the Lord on Thursday. My thoughts, love and prayers are with you now and always!!



You have come to the table of my soul. Thank you oh Lord for the mercy You've shown. What You took You have given back to me. So I pour out the oil of my dreams. As the tears start to fall I am bathing your feet, filling this house with the fragrance of your peace. I bow down to the ground. My hair spills all around. I am kissing your feet. I am wiping them dry because I believe that

You deserve to receive all of my love. Anything less Lord would not be enough. I'll lavish you Lord with all I have received. I'll spend my whole life to anoint You as king.

They say 'Why are you wasting this gift? Just think of the good you'd have done if you sold it serve all the poor souls in this world.' Father forgive for they know not what they say. Worthy are You, lamb of God that was slain, to receive power and riches, wisdom and strength. I fall down at your throne, longing for You alone. Singing 'Holy holy, God should be given all of the glory.'

You deserve to receive all of my love. Anything less Lord would not be enough. I'll lavish you Lord with all I have received. I'll spend my whole life to anoint You as king.

Now Lord I sit at Your feet. You say the better part's given to me by your love, by your generosity. 'She's done a good thing for me. My time on earth is but a blink of eternity, but the souls of the just shall live forever in peace. They'll remember this story. You will be given a crown of glory. In memory of what you've done the story will go on and on.'

You deserve to receive all of my love. Anything less Lord would not be enough. I'll lavish you Lord with all I have received. I'll spend my whole life to anoint You as king.

"with dirty feet and a full heart"

Today I received a last e-mail from Erin about her summer in Honduras... so beautiful! This e-mail really made me smile because Erin, who I love as a sister, was able to meet two of my most cherished friends, Michael Downs and Beau Schweitzer. I can't decide if I'm happier that she got to meet them, or that they got to meet her!!! God is so good. The circle (as it should) grows...

Los mas queridos a mi corazón,

And so, two months later, it ends… or as I prefer to think, only begins anew. Two months ago, I packed up malaria pills and my Spanish-English dictionary, jars of peanut butter and a heart full of hope yet uncertain of what was to come. As our feet left the ground of Latin America this past Friday morning, my luggage- and perhaps my heart- was lighter. I now carry a plastic bag filled with hand-made goodbye cards, the great possibility that I have the "masamora" and/or "piojos" (look it up if you really want to know), Spanish that (while far from perfect) actually managed to receive a few compliments from locals upon our departure, and a heart llena de amor and full of gracias to the God who blessed me with such an adventure.

And an adventure it has been… an adventure to live deeply, to be rooted and grounded in love. I walk across the campo and breathe deeply the mountain air, letting it settle into my lungs and my soul. I drink deeply from the Cup of Life, knowing that is it He who offers it to me, who offers it to us all. I celebrate joy in the journey, as we never truly arrive, not even in a lifetime. As little planes jolt through cloud-brushed mountains, I smile and am reminded both physically and metaphorically that God's call is not safe… it is radical, it is dangerous, it is exciting… yet it is life-giving, and I am convinced that it is the best possible way to live.

The life of a summer vol at the Farm is often likened to a sprinter amidst a marathon. For two months each summer, two Notre Dame students come and pour out energy, laughter, and tears. We give what we can… and then we leave. To truly lay roots is difficult when faced with the knowledge that they will be ripped from the ground. Yet our call is to go deep… and so we do, and so we go, hoping and trusting that we have entered into life with the kids the best we could, that we have loved them well.

Our last weeks have been full. In a daring display of vulnerability, Nelly from House 2 asks me to try my hand at giving my first haircut (she pleads with me to shave it all… I decline). 6-year-old Marita from House 1 falls asleep in my lap on the cold, hard floor of the chapel during Holy Hour, her little lice-infested head heavy on my arm, and I recognize that He is as present in the sleeping child curled up against my chest as in the Eucharist before us. I venture out solo for a morning swim, stopping to breathe in the sacredness of the moment, alone with the mountains and the sand and the vast expanse of calm, clear water, diving down to flirt with sand dollars and popping up to greet a fisherman gliding through the dawn. We are graced with the visit of Karla and Ryane, two ND summer vols at an orphanage in San Pedro Sula, and delight in the chance to share stories and adventure. I roll out of bed at 5:40 am and join the vol community for morning prayer in the courtyard consisting of various flailing dance moves to U2's "Beautiful Day" blaring from our iPod speakers. I am reminded that playing "fútbol", while fun, is not my calling as I am utterly dominated by a team of 8-year-olds. I encounter sacramental moments as sister Claire and I belt Folk Choir songs in the back of the Landcruiser, as we grab running sneakers and head to the mountains for adventure runs, as we play capture the flag across the campo and I jump off broad shoulders during a night swim under a sky filled with shooting stars. I am faced with challenge and somehow filled with patience as I tackle a week and a half of teaching Alex, Sigri and Erika, better known as Team ASE, the three loving and fun yet extremely willful students in our special ed program. Topics covered: the solar system, telling time, and how to properly wash our hands. The latter included an actual trip to the pila to practice the hand-washing activity, in which I learned that it is generally best to supervise orphans when you give them permission to cover their hands and face with dirt and markers. Oh, the grace of laughter…

And then, in the blink of an eye, we were finished… showered with piles of hand-made cards, hugs from children and songs of farewell to begin the journey of coming home. And what a journey it has been. Luckily, our final bus ride went much smoother than the previous one, with the only incident being the recitation of a love poem to Cassidy by a sketchy yet humorous man about *this* close to her face. Sadly, we didn't catch all of the words, but we do know it involved going away into the night and beautiful eyes :)

We spent our final afternoon in La Ceiba, where our journey began, in the presence of some of the most amazing, holy people I have ever met. Celebrating Mass with Laura, Kevin, Beau, Michael, Mark… one of the most beautiful signs of peace I have ever experienced… then celebrating life through the dare of chewing vitamins, savoring the taste of pizza, chocolate chip cookies and a game of Cranium in Spanish (funniest card: "Wonder Bra". Try explaining that in Spanish to a Franciscian nun!) So much holiness. So much life.

As we prepared to leave, soul brother Michael Downs suggested that we were sent out properly- by being prayed over. And so we were, right there in the foyer of that beautiful house where our journey began. Cassidy and I, back to back, surrounded by warm, sticky bodies of people who absolutely radiate, placing strong hands on our shoulders and backs. Earlier that day, as we sat in Mass, Michael leaned over, smiled and whispered, "You forgot to wash your feet!" I looked down and laughed, for my feet were absolutely filthy. Smelly. Ant-bitten. Dark brown with dirt. Calloused. And as we stood in that circle of faith and big feet stood gently atop my little toes, he prayed in thanksgiving for dirty feet. Feet that have weathered ants and mosquitoes, that have run bare on the spiky grass of the campo, that have walked the streets with the poor. Our feet will leave scarred… as they should. They are signs of work, of toughness, of a life loudly lived. Now they must venture out to continue to walk by faith, to "compartir", to openly and lovingly be changed and go forth to love and serve.

The Finca has in many ways "ruined" me… as I hoped it would. I now sit upstairs in my air-conditioned house in a comfortable bed, full of thanks for the opportunity to grow in love this summer and a newfound appreciation for the truly rich lives we lead in the States (most humorous retuning-home anecdote: seeing a cockroach in the bathroom in my house and my initial gut reaction being a literal verbal "awww!" because it reminded me of Finca life)… yet also full of questions about the way of the world (realizing that the aula I taught in for a week and a half is no larger than my parents' walk-in closet) and truly missing the 48 kids who stole my heart this summer.

And so, I want to leave you with my most heart-felt thanks. Gracias… thank you… for reading, for encouraging, for praying, for walking with me on this crazy-beautiful adventure of faith and hope and love. Gracias to my family, both here in the States and my brothers and sisters at the Farm; gracias to all of you, my faithful readers; and most of all, muchimas gracias a Dios who keeps us all together in love.

With dirty feet and a full heart,

Erin

ps: some of my favorite photos of my adventure can be found on my Flickr page :) enjoy!

how do they do that???

When I was in Nashville with Danielle I couldn't get over how the musicians could hear her play a song one time and then turn around and make a number chart that basically maps out the whole song in NUMBERS, and then turn around and play it perfectly. It is crazy!!! These people are geniuses...



... and hilarious!!!

happy birthday alli!

Today we celebrated Alli's 27th birthday.... Happy Birthday Alli! You are the best!!! I also want to wish a very happy birthday today and tomorrow to Anthony Brannan and Ben Hunter, two great friends from ND. I hope you all are having the beginning of your best year yet :-)

For the past three years I've been really blessed to be part of the St. Pius women's prayer group, who were so sweet to throw a little going away party on Monday. Thank you all so much!!! I am going to miss you all! You have all have brought so much joy and balance into my life the past three years. Thank you for your constant prayers and friendship.... I will be with you in spirit especially on Monday nights. Thank you so much for the "dream big" cake and also for the very thoughtful signed picture frame... Your notes and prayers mean so much to me, and I know I'll read them many times in the years ahead!


One more little update from today... after Alli's b-day dinner tonight we stopped by to look at a house that Beth and Alli might be interested in renting. It looks like a great house, and has an added bonus too of a semi-famous (at least in the Notre Dame world) former tenant. Any guesses who that might be??

"God determines who walks into your life....it's up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay,
and who you refuse to let go."

PS. Many more Danielle Rose videos to come!!

"walk on water"

Last weekend after Ryan and Sarah's wedding I flew to Duluth, MN to visit Danielle and her family one last time before she enters religious life. On Sunday Danielle's friend Fr. Mike said a special mass for her, and then she gave a last concert for her family and friends. I am beyond grateful to Danielle and her family for allowing me to be there to share in that time with them. I will remember it forever!

Today (for Kelly and the others that journeyed with her) I'd like to share a video of Danielle singing "Walk on Water" that she wrote inspired by the pilgrimage that they took to the Holy Land in May. Here she is explaining and singing this new song. My favorite line is the very last one~

"Be still, my soul, for God can do all things...."



Ps. Danielle has said that you can enter an online prayer request that their community will pray for that day, and for the whole week. Thank you so much in advance for all of your prayers Danielle!

life is beautiful...

Going from Nashville to Ryan and Sarah's wedding rehearsal back in South Bend gave me much to give thanks for today. Here's a short video of Ryan sharing his heartfelt thanks (and priceless surprise gift to Sarah!) at their dinner. Their sincere and true joy is so inspiring to me!!



My heart is with Danielle in Nashville as she finishes up the recording tonight. There is so much to share, so here's a start. This video is of her sharing for the first time with Scott, Ken, Matt and Jeff the song that is in a lot of ways the heart of the new cd. What was amazing to me was how this one song really set the tone for the whole recording. These musicians are as faith-filled and compassionate as they are talented, and I truly believe that these men were led to this project for a reason. Something really special happened in the studio this week, and it was amazing to have witnessed it. There is no place in the world I would have rather been this week.





PS. For all the ND fans out there (especially dad and mrs. rizzi) here's a picture of Ryan's groomsmen in their new ND jerseys commemorating the big day (7-21-07). What a perfect idea Ryan and Sarah!!!!

hi from nashville

wow... there really aren't enough words to describe how amazing it has been to be here in nashville with danielle as she records her new cd "pursue me." this whole experience has been incredible, and something that i will remember for the rest of my life. i have hours of video and lots of stories to share, but i just wanted to share a few pictures (all taken by danielle) in the meantime. enjoy!!

jeff on piano

ken on percussion

matt on bass

scott on guitar
james engineering it all

hangin' with the band

congrats kelly and brian!

This weekend I made it home for the wedding of my best friend Katie's sister Kelly. The wedding was beautiful, and the reception was so much fun too! Here are a few pictures from the day that I borrowed from Katie's web page. Thanks so much for inviting me Kelly and Brian! Congratulations, and I hope you're having a great time in Jamaica!

Kelly and Brian's first dance

Katie's daughter Abby is unstoppably cute!!

Katie's husband Craig took this picture, and said it looks just like our pics from high school graduation. Maybe we'll look older someday!!

As for this week, I am heading out tonight for Nashville to be with my best friend from ND Danielle Rose as she records her next CD. (Check her out on itunes!) I am so excited to see her, and to be there as she records these new songs. I'll be back on Friday, just in time for Ryan and Sarah's wedding. Can't wait!!

little miss firecracker

The 4th of July isn't just a national holiday... it's also the birthday of the coolest 3-year-old that I know, little miss Isabelle. Her mom and dad (Steve and Erin) are two of my closest friends in South Bend, and she and her brother Michael are two amazingly cute kids. (Steve is actually the reason I moved back here 5 years ago when he hired me to be his assistant for ND Vision, and I can't thank him enough for it!!!)

Here are some pics of the big day...











I counted three desserts... it's good to be the birthday girl!!

Happy partygoers with the birthday girl! ( I love the smile on the little girl in pink!!)

project playlist

My brother ryan just sent me a link to a great new website called project playlist. Looks like you can make your own playlist from thousands of songs already online. Super fun!!

For all you country music lovers out there, here is Ryan's playlist including lots of my favorites like "find out who your friends are" (song #2) and "summertime." I'm pretty sure that this is my sister's too, also including some of my favorites like "suspicious minds" and "for once in my life." I haven't made one yet, but will let you know when I do. If you make a playlist, be sure to share it!!

Speaking of country music, now's the perfect time to share two of my favorite songs by brad paisley... I love what these songs are all about, and the videos are cute too!

"little moments"


"the world"