Saturday, June 16, 2007
happy birthday beth!
Wednesday, June 13, 2007
happy birthday dad!!!
We had a surprise birthday party for him last Friday night, and one of the biggest surprises was that Christy flew in from San Francisco, and Ryan came in from Chicago!!!
Another huge surprise for my dad is that he'll be going to the Cleveland Indians Fantasy Camp in Winter Haven, FL this year. Here he is learning about his big gift!!

I hope you enjoyed your party dad!!
On Saturday I went to Pittsburgh to look for an apartment, and then got home just in time to get to the CMHS class of '96 reunion. What a great time, and I just want to send a big thank you to everyone who made it-- it was great to see everyone!
Wednesday, June 06, 2007
my "soul sister" at ND
"And so my prayer is that your story will have involved some leaving and some coming home, some summer and some winter, some roses blooming out like children in a play. My hope is your story will be about changing, about getting something beautiful born inside of you, about learning to love a woman or a man, about learning to love a child, about moving yourself around water, around mountains, around friends, about learning to love others more than we love ourselves, about learning oneness as a way of understanding God. We get one story, you and I, and one story alone. God has established the elements, the setting and the climax and the resolution. It would be a crime not to venture out, wouldn't it?" – Donald Miller in Through Painted Deserts
Erin had written this first e-mail right before she left, and then on Sunday she sent her first update:
I cannot even begin to describe what life here has been like, and I don't think I should really try in such limited internet time... but I am in awe of the goodness of it all. My constant wrestling with the Spanish language... the beauty of the heights of the mountains... celebrating mass with the mountain community in Buena Vista... swimming in the posas... these moments of grace remind me of my smallness, that this existence is not my own. I have already been challenged in so many ways, and I know there is so much more yet to come... yet I also feel God's grace being poured out on me, and I know that it is only through Him- seriously- that I can do anything this summer.
God bless you always Erin. You are in my thoguths and prayers!!!!
St. Therese, the Little Flower, pray for her!
Monday, June 04, 2007
new friends
Nancy is a mother of 7 children and a nurse, and has started a non-profit based out of Palm Beach, Florida making several mission trips a year to help bring medical care to Haiti. Fr. Tom is the director of the Haiti Program at ND, and Dr. Madsen leads the program's efforts out of Leogane. Theresa Patterson is the director of the Parish Twinning Program of the Americas, and I marvel at how since 1978 she has helped to organize over 350 churches in the US in twinning relationships with churches in Haiti. I learned from her that Haiti has only 30 hospitals and 400 doctors (for a county of over 8 million people), and so she now has her sights set on building the Visitation Hospital in Petite Riviere de Nippes, of which Fran is the director of development. They are quite an amazing team!! And last but not least, Chip Wirth is is extremely involved in his church's twinning program that helped to create Maison Fortune orphanage in Hinche, and is now involved with the salt project too.
I hope to write more soon, but I just had to share these wonderful people with all of you. I consider it a tremendous blessing that my path has crossed with each one of them! They are all true inspirations to me, and have reminded me powerfully how essential we each are to the body of Christ. I couldn't help but think this weekend many times of the verse I centered my prayer around during my trip to Haiti in March:
Goodnight!"... the light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it." (John 1:5)
Saturday, June 02, 2007
cathing up
Chicago pics...
Reunion with the Pollock's, Patelli's and Van Gilder's!
Tuesday, May 22, 2007
"tender, strong and true..."

Fr. Tom Doyle, C.S.C. - ND ‘89
Seniors’ Last Trip to Grotto 2001
... Presuming that you and I have a few things in common, the Grotto is probably the place you have sought shelter in times of need. The Grotto is sacred ground because it actually invites what most public spaces don’t allow: the Grotto permits you to be weak and vulnerable. Its ground is sacred because it’s covered with the tears that you didn’t have permission to shed in another place. Its stone cavern echos sigh and prayers for yourself and your loved ones. In the absence of your biological mothers, at the Grotto, you have found a surrogate mother who is just as tender and familiar as your own.On this poignant night, let me suggest to you that the Grotto is the setting for the least conventional learning, and most important wisdom, of your last four years. It is the place where we are permitted to be WEAK. We come when we recognize the limits of being human. . .when life asks more than we can naturally provide ourselves. When our minds and bodies and spirits have been heroically stretched - sometimes to the point of near breaking - we go to the Grotto, alone and with others, to face that frightening reality. We approach the Grotto, fall to our knees as beggars before the Mystery that created us. And it is a good thing. Because being there reinforces - that the essence of being human isn’t to be alone - but rather in relationship - with others and God.
Over the years, the Grotto has given us a place and permission to be fully human, which includes being limited, being needy, being weak. . . The Grotto invites what we so often want to deny or obscure. It is unlike almost every other place because it shatters the world’s image of success. That to be a success we must always and everywhere be strong!
Here on the threshold of Graduation, there is little doubt that you will be strong enough to succeed in every conceivable way. But, our last trip to the Grotto begs an equally important question: Will you be WEAK enough to carry a Notre Dame degree?
Have you learned at the Grotto and at Notre Dame, that:
•to be rich, you must have the experience of begging.
•to be a healer, you must walk among the broken.
•to be a teacher, you must acknowledge there is much you do not know.
•to be a leader, you must have fallen in another’s line.
•To tap into the full strength and power of who you are, you must permit yourself to be weak.Power and Weakness: Not one but both.
• It is the paradox of Christ on the cross.
• It is what St. Paul wrote about when he said, “power is made perfect in weakness.”
• It is what Chesteron described when he defined Christianity as, “the superhuman paradox (where) two opposite passions. . .blaze beside each other.”
• It is what we sing of in the Alma Mater when we name Mary as both TENDER and STRONG.The fullness of your Notre Dame degree will be unleashed on the world when you claim your power, admit your frailty and live as one more Christian paradox in the world.
So my friends:
• Stand proudly and lean on one another.
• Raise a triumphant fist in the air and hold the hand of a friend.
• Shout with joy and shed your tears.
• Tolerate no injustice and reconcile always.
• Wait in silence and proclaim boldly “I love you.”
• Claim your power and embrace your weakness.
• Be strong - be tender - be true.
Thursday, May 17, 2007
suprise guestblog....Happy Birthday!!
Happy Birthday!!!!
Tuesday, May 15, 2007
mother's day!
Sunday, May 06, 2007
snow cones!
In other news, I have about 9 days left for making my decision for med school and yesterday (thanks to Keri and Amy's suggestion), I started a novena to St. Therese. Before Therese died she promised, "I will spend my heaven
One last thing... I want to congratulate my good friend Kevin on his graduation from Miami University today, and for being chosen as the graduation speaker for his college. Congratulations Kevin!!!!
Friday, May 04, 2007
"whatever You want for the rest of my life..."
This is my favorite video of his.... I had to share it!
Wednesday, May 02, 2007
Monday, April 30, 2007
photos from Haiti
I have been wanting to share photos from Haiti, and Dr. Rachel English just sent me hers. Thank you Rachel! This first photo is of Dr. Madsen. (Just click on the photo below to see the whole album...)
Saturday, April 28, 2007
good guys finish first...
Today might possibly be the greatest day of my brothers' and dad's life. (Well, only after being almost the worst... which is saying a lot if you're a Brown's fan.) But the Browns did it and (in dramatic fashion that I thought was going to give my brother Jeff a heart attack) drafted Brady Quinn. For kids who grew up trading blue & gold on Saturday for orange & brown on Sunday, and who knew "Bernie, Bernie" and the Notre Dame Victory March before we knew our ABC's, this is a huge deal.
The day got off to a rough start, but all's well that ends well in the land of
the Irish Brownies. Jeff won't be quitting thePittsburgh Browns Backers , and Brady gets his childhood dream come true after all (and showed a lot of class in the meantime.) Looks like what Brady signed on my jersey back in October was the best advice after all, and it looks like I'll be digging out my orange and brown on Sundays again too...
We love you Brady!!
saint gianna
"With simplicity and equilibrium she harmonized the demands of mother, wife, doctor and her passion for life."Gianna believed in the sanctity of life, and ultimately gave her life so that her child, Gianna Emanuela, might live. In 2005 Saint Gianna's daughter Laura came to the March for Life in DC and shared that this "was not an isolated act of heroism, it was the crowning of a whole life of sanctity as a physician, spouse and mother."
As the website dedicated to her explains:
Gianna made a heroic choice, but it was something her family members and friends testified she prepared for every day of her life. Her heroic virtue, genuine holiness of life, selflessness, and quiet joy remind all of us that God entrusts us with a personal vocation. Each and every day presents us with choices that have the power to prepare us to take heroic action whenever it will be called for. We can do that, however, only if we surrender ourselves and what we desire to God and His will for us.
Gianna herself said, "I have always been taught that the secret of happiness is living moment by moment and to thank God for everything that in His goodness He sends us, day after day." Moment by moment, day by day, one act of love at a time, this philosophy led to her sainthood.
So many (including me!) have already been inspired by her and someday I'd love to work in a medical clinic dedicated in her honor... we'll see what God has in store! In the meantime, I'll try to follow her example, thanking and responding to God one day at a time for the goodness He sends.
Saint Gianna, pray for us!







